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How to tell if the man youre dating is married

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Not wearing a ring is only the beginning of this deception. Jimmy seemed too good to be true. Joan met him one morning when she served him a cortado at her coffee shop. He had her swooning over his knowledge of Asian coffee culture in no time.

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He was tall, dark and handsome, and hailed from Staten Island. He was mysterious, and said he hated social media. Oh and texting and phone calls?

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Warning sign number one: He gave Joan a hotmail address as the only way to contact him. He sends the most romantic notes.

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There is simply nothing sweet or romantic about that at all. Why are you asking How to tell if the man youre dating is married many questions?

It was a sentimental attachment, rather than one of convenience. Do you even know his last name? Warning sign number four: Jimmy was definitely married. The signs were all there, and thanks to the illustrious years I spent working as an exotic dancer, I knew all the tricks. It was as if they had been granted an immediate license to be a bad boy as soon as they paid the admission fee to walk through those doors.

The men know that, but they play along. My questioning had led her down the path to discovery. What would you tell any of your friends if they were dating someone with a Yahoo address that refused to text or call? He was surprisingly honest when she asked him over email if he was married.

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It was that easy for him. He was out of her life as quickly as he came into it. I hugged her knowing the feeling all too well. Where are all of the nice guys hiding? It made the idea of a dating break sound more and more appealing. So the game was on. We would see how easy, or maybe how hard it would end up being to stick to the men detox plan. I gave Joan a week to cave, thinking this little experiment would be easy for me considering my well of prospects had run dry.

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Joan's new boyfriend, "Jimmy, no last name," was definitely a married man.

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Of course you're concerned and want to know if that guy you just met who's coming on to you so delightfully is married before you get involved.

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