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Things to say after a first date

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Do you struggle with knowing what to text a girl after the first date? What do I text a girl after a first date?

For one thing, you can text. This is a much smaller emotional investment than making a phone call. It might be because while a phone call requires all your attention right then and there, texting allows a person to get back when they have time and when they feel like it.

​"Did you get home safely?"

Because texting is such a low-pressure, low-risk way of contacting someone, I generally encourage men to text right away. This can be right after you get her number or right after your first date.

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You can then find your own way of putting it. Check in and see that she got home all right modern-day chivalry, guys! Sending her a quick text when you get home and get settled is the perfect way to cap an evening.

The two of you might even get into a little phone flirting before you hit the hay.

So, what do you say,...

You can also ask her to hit you up when she makes it home. This can be powerful and, as I said above, can open the door to a late night flirtatious texting session between the two of you.

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You want to keep the fun going when texting a girl after a first date. Want in on a little secret? For the most part, women are as nervous about a first date as you are. They want to know that it went well. Now is the time when you explicitly call back to a high point on the date. This should be something lighthearted and fun. Or if the two of you were riding roller coasters and she made some bizarre scream and the two of you laughed about that, make another lighthearted joke about it.

This is key to texting girls after a first date. You want to subtly remind her that she had a great time too. Even if she knows it, explicitly reminding her of a particularly fun time on the date is going to get her remembering that moment specifically.

That memory is going to solidify Things to say after a first date positive impressions she already made about you. This is how you should end things: Let her know that you want to get together again.


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